bespoke wedding vows and
speeches for modern romantics

For when your heart is full, but your page is blank.

You’ve planned the wedding beautifully. You’ve thought about the candles, the music, the dress, the menu, the flowers, the feeling you want people to leave with. You’ve spent more time than expected discussing linen, lighting and whether the chairs are ugly. As you should.

But then someone asks what you’re saying in your vows, who’s doing speeches, whether you need a reading, what you want your ceremony to feel like, and you realise that the part with the most emotional weight has crept up on you.

Because the words are different. They are the bit people cry at. The bit people quote afterwards. The bit that gets replayed in wedding videos and remembered in flashes years later. The bit that follows you into your marriage.

At Altar & Toast, I help couples say what they mean, properly. No clichés. No borrowed lines. No trying to sound like someone else. Just thoughtful, personal writing that sounds like you on your best day, and still feels true long after it.