Well hello there…

Hi, I’m Sydney - wedding writer, editor and founder of Altar & Toast.

In March 2024, on the morning of my wedding, I wrote and recorded a short voice message for my husband. We played it in the church just before I walked down the aisle.

It was my way of grounding us both. A chance to say: “Look where we are. Take it all in. Aren’t we lucky? I love you so much. Oh, and stand up straight”.

That voiceover ended up in our wedding video and, unexpectedly, it went viral.

What I’d written for one person - my person - reached millions.

And suddenly, couples from around the world were reaching out. They wanted to do something similar. Some needed help writing their vows. Others were looking for better speeches, more personal ceremonies, meaningful thank-you moments, love letters, toasts - words that reflected who they really were.

That’s how Altar & Toast began.

I’ve always used writing to untangle big emotions and make sense of meaningful moments. Now, I help couples do the same. Whether you’re staring at a blank page or refining a half-formed draft, I’ll help you find the right words, and say them well.

No templates. No filler. No “insert quote here.” Just writing that feels intentional, clear, and entirely your own.

My job is to make sure that what you say doesn’t just sound good. It feels true. It lands. And it lasts.

If that’s what you’re looking for, I’d love to work together.

Sydney